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    This and the post yesterday make me want to gag.

    magicnmystery on Wed, 04/16/2008 - 6:08am

    A children's book to explain plastic surgery is entirely inappropriate. What kind of message are they trying to send to kids and why would a parent try to take the easy way out of a difficult conversation?

    atlchick on Wed, 04/16/2008 - 6:18am

    Weird...

    aimeeb on Wed, 04/16/2008 - 6:21am

    that is screwed up.

    elynlovesyou on Wed, 04/16/2008 - 6:37am

    Why in the world do we need a book to explain everything these days? What ever happened to just talking to your child about issues that come up? If you have to justify your plastic surgery to your child with a book there are bigger problems!

    sadieb on Wed, 04/16/2008 - 6:40am

    Wow...

    melizzle on Wed, 04/16/2008 - 6:43am

    RIDICULOUS. No wonder young girls have such low self-esteem.

    Shopaholichunny on Wed, 04/16/2008 - 6:48am

    this is so sad.

    tweet hotpants on Wed, 04/16/2008 - 6:54am

    Wow, this is just about the most awful thing ever.

    saraswords on Wed, 04/16/2008 - 6:54am

    Blech. What a disgusting cover and idea.

    lindac on Wed, 04/16/2008 - 7:15am

    This society has just sunk to a new low. And what does that cover and title suggest? That mommy is beautiful only after her myriad of plastic surgeries? This is so disturbing.

    lucyS on Wed, 04/16/2008 - 7:19am

    Wow, things have changed since I was a little kid. I always thought my mom was beautiful (and always will)...and I hope if I have kids they will think the same thing, even without the boob implants and tummy tuck. Jeez...

    em1282 on Wed, 04/16/2008 - 7:32am

    This is just sad. I feel bad for little girls today.

    brittanyk on Wed, 04/16/2008 - 7:42am

    This is really bad. I wish we didn't have this in our society.

    laura220 on Wed, 04/16/2008 - 7:45am

    This is awful. While it is good to explain things to children, it will just make them feel like surgery is an acceptable norm, which it is not.

    LArgent on Wed, 04/16/2008 - 7:55am

    Horrible!

    Lovely_1 on Wed, 04/16/2008 - 8:07am

    Ditto. Weird.

    j2e1n9 on Wed, 04/16/2008 - 8:07am

    What an awesome, sparkly, fun-filled way to teach kids all about how there is only one type of beauty, and your only hope to attain it is through surgery!
    Especially since there's a good chance you share those ugly-nose genes with Mommy.
    Gag.
    The first thing I learned in a high school human development class was that the best way to ensure your kids grow up with a huge repetoire of self-esteem issues and obsessions with outward appearance is to openly act on and voice your insecurities about yourself around them.

    Lambsauce on Wed, 04/16/2008 - 8:09am

    utterly wretched.

    krampalicious on Wed, 04/16/2008 - 8:12am

    This book disgusts me.

    gigill on Wed, 04/16/2008 - 8:25am

    Love your comment Lambsauce. Laughing out loud

    mondaymoos on Wed, 04/16/2008 - 8:32am

    This is a sad commentary on our society today.

    Schaianne on Wed, 04/16/2008 - 8:32am

    That's just not right

    karisaamy on Wed, 04/16/2008 - 8:51am

    that's messed up. Wouldn't it be better to have a book for children explaining why Mommy needs to take some time for herself and why she goes to the gym? that it's important that Mommy gets some time for her so that she can be a better Mommy and Wife? My children are so excited and happy for me and supportive of my "me" time and my new routine of going to the gym. They can see that it's making me a better Mom and wife, I'm happier, perkier, less tired, and they're reaping the benefits. Plastic surgery won't help the endorphines that affect a person's mental state the way exercise will.

    I agree with bella, I'm all for books geared towards children to help them better understand the changes going on in their world, but this is sending the wrong message to our children. girls will think that a)they have to fit a stereotype and look like the fake models in magazines, b)that plastic surgery is the answer for everything and boys will think that that's what women are supposed to do.

    Kimpossible on Wed, 04/16/2008 - 8:58am

    sorry one more thing (guess I wasn't done with my rant)...
    it would be nice to have a book with the same title that talked about the beauty within Moms and all the things they do for their families, sacrifices that many make for the betterment of their family.

    Kimpossible on Wed, 04/16/2008 - 9:00am

    This is terrible and disturbing. Little girls need to be taught that intelligence and personality are far more important than beauty.

    designergirl on Wed, 04/16/2008 - 9:02am

    Horrid.

    wren on Wed, 04/16/2008 - 9:04am

    Love how this book was written by a man. Haha!!! How incredibly sad.

    bigestivediscuit on Wed, 04/16/2008 - 9:11am

    Having my daughter really changed how I see my body. I don't see the "flaws" anymore--there aren't any. Look what my body did! It's amazing! I don't want her to grow up thinking she is not good enough as she was made--she is beautiful and she should be proud of how strong, healthy and gorgeous she is, naturally.

    LaReveuse on Wed, 04/16/2008 - 9:21am

    I think most kids think their moms are beautiful. How is a kid supposed to feel when they are told they aren't without surgery? How is that going to psychologically affect the child? xzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzXXXXXX
    And that's what my cat has to add to that.

    MandyJoBo on Wed, 04/16/2008 - 9:25am

    Yeah, I keep thinking of the kids who might have Mommy's nose/waist/whatever. Bet they're going to grow up feeling REALLY secure with themselves. Sigh.

    BellaSugar on Wed, 04/16/2008 - 9:37am

    Our world today is an odd one...

    Never criticize your appearance in front of your children, they look at themselves and think theirs is wrong too...

    SusanTeufel on Wed, 04/16/2008 - 10:10am

    This just seems all kinds of inappropriate...starting with the plastic surgeon being made out to some type of "super hero"...somebody has got a false-sense of self.

    tiabia on Wed, 04/16/2008 - 10:16am

    So basically this book is telling little girls "You need to "fix" yourself to be good enough and what you look like is all that matters anyway." Great message idiots! I'm not letting my future children, if I have any, be exposed to garbage like this. Even though things like this make me think I really do need to have kids.

    Francoisehardly on Wed, 04/16/2008 - 10:21am

    That is the stupidest way to mess up a child.

    k_izzle on Wed, 04/16/2008 - 10:53am

    Ewww....to me, this implies that beauty comes from surgery, which is horrible. Plus, how will the kids who've inherited the "flaws" feel when mom has surgery to "fix" everything?

    All kids think their mom is beautiful, and that's exactly how it should be. Ick.

    secrethoughts on Wed, 04/16/2008 - 11:05am

    This really makes me sad. I would like to think that the age of plastic surgery and vain attempts to look like someone else died with the 90s... How sad that our children are learning that in order to be a secure and amazing human, you need to change yourself when they should really be learning how to love themselves for who they are inside!
    argh!

    cakes7873 on Wed, 04/16/2008 - 11:10am

    it completely sends the wrong message. double edged sword though. good information but if mommy doesn't have positive self-esteem where does the daughter learn it???

    refinnej on Wed, 04/16/2008 - 11:17am

    Its disturbing !!!!!! Ewww

    omlove on Wed, 04/16/2008 - 11:29am

    If they really wanted to write a book to explain plastic surgery to kids, I think it should go something like, "Well my dear, the patriarchal underpinnings of our youth- and sex- obsessed society pressure me to loathe rather than appreciate the miracle of my body, even and especially after bearing life! Plus, Dr. Michael really, really wants to make more money!"

    Make no mistake, this has nothing to do with explaining things to children. It has to do with intentionally conditioning girls to accept and want plastic surgery -- why do you think the main character is a DAUGHTER and not a SON?

    lizadilly on Wed, 04/16/2008 - 12:04pm

    The saddest part is that the mothers getting plastic surgery wouldn't be able to talk to their kids about it and would instead need a book to do it for them.

    nancita on Wed, 04/16/2008 - 12:14pm

    so.wrong.

    milly76 on Wed, 04/16/2008 - 12:57pm

    could we get any more superficial?

    BeamerCG on Wed, 04/16/2008 - 1:42pm

    I'm literally appalled. The message this book sends, based on its cover (hah, judging a book on its cover), is that beauty is put at a premium, which it is, and can only be attained by plastic surgery.

    Beauty begins from within, people.

    k squared on Wed, 04/16/2008 - 1:48pm

    How absolutely ludicrous. What a way to tell little girls that they (and women in general) aren't beautiful as they are, and need modifications to fit an ideal.

    Good Lord.

    eat_paneer on Wed, 04/16/2008 - 2:19pm

    I'm with Lambsauce and Kimpossible on this one. They've said it perfectly. Where will this lunacy end?

    bailaoragaditana on Wed, 04/16/2008 - 3:05pm

    This is insane. Hate it.

    leeluvfashion on Wed, 04/16/2008 - 3:08pm

    What a stupid idea for a children's book. The author should have written a book to women, maybe giving adivce and different tips in explaining the surgery with their children. Instead, he took the easy way out and decided to write a brainless book that nobody wants to buy. Clothes stop fitting because we gain weight. For that matter, people usually buy clothes that do fit them when their old clothes stop fitting. Duh. I could talk about this for hours but it would get all of us absolutely nowere, and fast.

    AccessFashion on Wed, 04/16/2008 - 3:55pm

    My "Mommy" was beautiful. She was an oncology nurse and a devoted mom and a wise teacher - she taught me that I was fine just as I am. She was beautiful as a PERSON.

    She died of breast cancer at 52.

    This book makes me sick.

    rachi99 on Wed, 04/16/2008 - 5:43pm

    I don't agree with this AT ALL.

    emalove on Wed, 04/16/2008 - 5:51pm

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    BellaSugar Asks:

     

    As plastic surgery becomes more common, so do the issues surrounding it. For instance, how does a woman tell her kids about her upcoming tummy tuck or boob job? To tackle this problem, a plastic surgeon has written My Beautiful Mommy, a book for four- to seven-year-olds.

    As Newsweek reports:

    [The book] features a plastic surgeon named Dr. Michael (a musclebound superhero type) and a girl whose mother gets a tummy tuck, a nose job and breast implants. Before her surgery the mom explains that she is getting a smaller tummy: "You see, as I got older, my body stretched and I couldn't fit into my clothes anymore. Dr. Michael is going to help fix that and make me feel better." Mom comes home looking like a slightly bruised Barbie doll with demure bandages on her nose and around her waist. . . . The book doesn't explain exactly why the mother is redoing her nose post-pregnancy. Nonetheless, Mom reassures her little girl that the new nose won't just look "different, my dear—prettier!"

    While I'm for anything that helps kids better understand changes in their world, this book makes me think of the 12-year-old girl who wants implants because her mom has them. Do you think this book is a smart idea, or does it send the wrong message?


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